Tuesday, February 22, 2011

Week 18 : Sweet Potato



Baby's now the size of a sweet potato!
baby's become amazingly mobile (compared to you, at least), passing the hours yawning, hiccupping, rolling, twisting, kicking, punching, sucking, and swallowing. And baby is finally big enough that you'll soon be able to feel her movements.
the bump

- One more week until the BIG ultrasound!!! YEAH... i just can't wait
- finally started to feel the baby move... really good yesterday!!
- i've been really sleepy this week!!  falling asleep by 10pm
- my favorite moment so far : madison kissing my belly and saying "i love you baby" i certainly teared up!!

Tuesday, February 15, 2011

Week 17 : Onion

Wow this pregnancy is flying by!!!! ARE WE THERE ALREADY???


Baby's now the size of an onion!
Baby's skeleton is hardening, changing from rubbery cartilage to bone, and fat is finally accumulating around it. His umbilical cord is getting thicker and stronger, and those little fingers and toes now feature one-of-a-kind prints.


This week:
you know i've done this a few times so i'm ready to get on with this pregnancy and have this little onion!! My pregnancy with madison was PERFECT, so perfect that I knew without a shadow of a doubt I would HAVE another baby!! I knew thought that going into pregnancy number 2 (my sweet little Emma) wouldn't be as perfect as the first... in fact most of my pregnancy i worried. Worried that i would lose her. I had my gallbladder removed at 20 weeks. and when they told me that was a risk to the pregnancy it was really scary!! I mean really scary! That's major surgery! Before i had the surgery I had to name her just in case! it made me feel closer to her. So the rest of the pregnancy i worried that something would happen to her and i wouldn't get her in my arms.

As gross as this image is, it was very comforting to see her in my uterus!! this picture is from my surgery and the dr. took this picture just for me. He said he could see her kicking around in there the whole 30 mins that it took to remove my gallbladder :)

But pregnancy #3 has been SOOOO different... I had morning sickness, which I NEVER had with the girls! and I have had congestion for about 7 weeks now!! which is very annoying.. i can never breath!!  I am finally to the point where i feel pregnant.. i haven't really felt much movement yet :( hoping it will happen soon!!  Two weeks from tomorrow we find out if we will be bringing home a 3rd girl or our first and only boy!! So excited, it can't get her soon enough. (boy maybe??)

We have 5 months to go and there is so much to do. We put an offer on a house today in Greensboro but I'm don't have a good feeling about it. they are asking entirely too much for the house and we offered them about $20, 000 off there asking price. But we had to start somewhere. I hope and pray that this works out, but know that God will provide for our growing family. If this is the house that we are suppose to be in then in will happen. or we may have to keep looking! Whatever the case may be we will be bringing baby #3 into our family very soon!!

heres a peak at the house!

I'm not going to make a big deal about it b/c i don't want to get my hopes up!

back to baby #3
- I am still not craving anything. with Madison it was icee's and combos and with Emma it was Coke! 
- Finally feeling that the bump is in my way. Feel strained when i tie my shoes
- two weeks until ultrasound (have i mentioned that yet)
- tired
- oh and last week i started working a part time job.  best feeling in the world!!  so yeah, that makes me even more tired b/c i have to get up at 6am to be at work at 9am LOL
- i've gained 3 lbs so far... crazy!!!

Wednesday, February 9, 2011

Week 16 : Avocado



Baby's now the size of an avocado!
Watch what you say...tiny bones forming in baby's ears mean she can now pick up your voice. A few more minuscule changes: Eyebrows, lashes, and hair are starting to fill in, and taste buds are forming.

- 3 more weeks until the big ultrasound 
- still congested... starting to get on my nervous!!
- feeling pretty good!!  
- woke up this morning with the "disappearing belly" my belly looked smaller than it did yesterday. i was a little scared and then remember hearing about the "disappearing belly" so hears to hoping and praying it's just that. 
- baby's still only kicking about once a day!! ready to feel some good kicks so i know he/she is ok in there :)

Thursday, February 3, 2011

Week 15 : Navel Orange

Baby's now the size of a naval orange!
Continuing the march toward normal proportions, baby's legs now out-measure his arms. And, finally, all four limbs have functional joints. Your fetus is squirming and wiggling like crazy down in the womb, though you probably can't feel the movements just yet.



information from The Bump


Week 15
- 4 weeks until ultrasound
- best moment of the week : today i started feeling my little orange kick!! well at least i think that's what that was, the jury is still out.  
- I am continuing to have a stuffy nose. i started taking sutifed which was raising my blood pressure so i stopped taking that and starting using afrin which can be addictive.. great!! i have to use it or i just can't breath and have a headache all day b/c my nose is so stopped up.  i hate having to be on any type of medication b/c i just wanted to do the best for my little one, but i seriously suffered for 4 weeks with no improvement!!

Sad Time in My Family

Yesterday a new news article came out in the Greensboro News & Record that discussed the state investigation into the facility that my grandmother was living at when she passed away.  The online version is condensed so i wanted to share the full verson here on my blog!

Edith Purvis


N.C. blocks Loyalton from adding patients
An inquiry finds the assisted living facility isn't equipped to house wandering residents. 


By J. Brian Ewing
Staff Writer

     GREENSBORO - The sate has stripped Loyalton of Greensboro of it's ability to admit new residents after an investigation into a death at the assisted living facility on Lawndale Drive.
     The N.C. Department of Heath and Human Services took the action against Loyalton in early January after determining it was not equipped to serve residents with a tendency to wander due to dementia or other causes of disorientation.  The investigation found several other violations as well, according to documents released Tuesday by the state.
     The action comes after an investigation int the Dec. 24 death of Edith Purvis, 85, a Loyalton resident who suffered hypothermia after getting locked outside for at least two hours and maybe longer.  Purvis was discovered about 3 a.m. Temperatures reached below freezing that night.  Calls to Loyalton for comment were not returned Tuesday.
     Marty Walden, Purvis' daughter, said she had been advised not to speak about the matter.
     The state also is in the process of downgrading Loyalton to a provisional license.  The change would mean Emeritus, Loyalton's parent company, could not open any new facilities in the state until six months after a full license has been reinstated.  A full license would not be reinstated until the state has reinspected the facility.
     To regain a full license, Loyalton must prove has developed policies to deal with residents who wander, is properly training staff and is assessing residents before admittance.
     The DHHS investigation notes that at least five Loyalton residents had been identified as wanderers either through interviews with family, medical information or observation.
     However, during several interviews with DHHS investigators, the facility's regional director reported that Loyalton had no wanderers and therefore no policies to address the problem.  They claimed that if a resident was identified as having memory problems or wandering tendencies, he or she would be recommended to another facility, according to the investigation report.
     Interviews with staff and facility documents revealed numerous examples of residents wandering off, including one resident found walking down the sidewalk next to Lawndale Drive with a trash can full of shoes.
     Purvis is not named in the report, but it details the death of "resident #3" on Dec. 24 after being discovered outside.  The report cites a police interview with Loyalton's executive director, who said the resident was confused but that wandering had not been a problem.
     A staff member, however, told investigators that wandering had become such a problem with "resident #3" that at one point a bracelet had been attached to the resident's wrist to set off a bell to notify staff if the resident got up.
     Tammy Martin, Loyalton's executive director told the News & Record in a previous interview that staff learned Purvis was missing about 3 a.m. while doing routine room checks.  But staff members told investigators that "resident #3" was missing about 2 a.m. and was last  seen in bed at midnight.
     One staff member told investigators that some shifts were hectic and that some staff felt it would help to have an extra employee because of all the wandering residents.
     "If the corporate policy is to discharge folks who are wandering and you've got folks who are wandering, obviously there's some disconnect," Jeff Horton, chief operations officer with the Division of Heath Services Regulation, said on Tuesday.
     State law required a facility that cares for residents known to wander or become disoriented to have an alarm on every exit door, Horton said.  Loyalton had no such alarms prior to Purvis' death.
     Facility officials reported that alarms were installed on the doors later that day; however, some were found not to be working during the investigation.
     Loyalton had a relatively clean state inspection record prior to Purvis' death. However, it did receive nine demerits in its most recent annual inspection and was fined #3,600 by the state last April for failing to administer medications as ordered.


January 8th 2011 Article in the News & Record

I can't even begin to say how upsetting this is to me and my family.  The 52 page state investigation revealed disturbing neglect!  And it just goes to show that WE are the only one's who can keep our family members protected when they are in facilities like this.  If it had not been for my aunt being such an amazing advocate for my grandmother there is no telling how worse it could have been.  I am so grateful for my aunt and her dedication and love for her mother and our family.  She is amazing woman!!

It's so difficult having to know that this happened to my grandmother. I love her and miss her dearly, but I know that she is praising our Lord and enjoying her time with my grandfather and my mom!!